Wednesday, September 23, 2015

City Distractions

September 22, 2015 1:14PM

Here's a quick look from my trip to Chicago yesterday. I had a good time with friends and shopping down Michigan Avenue. Please like, comment, or, hype my look on lookbook.nu if you like it. Thanks, God bless!




There was this really pretty sanctuary in the middle of the city. It had a lot of vines all over the walls and a cute fountain. I don't really match the scenery, but couldn't resist to take pictures. 

Monday, September 21, 2015

SALT 2015: Renewing the mind

August 20, 2015 7:03PM



Sorry, for not posting often. I just started school and have very limited time to write blog posts. I've been working on this post for quite a while, but I finally finished it. Hope you guys enjoy. So, over summer I was blessed enough to attend a Hmong Christian Missionary Alliance (CMA) conference called SALT and I want to share my experiences with you all!!! For those who don't know what SALT is, it means Single Adults Living Triumphantly. The conference lasted five days and four nights at Wheaten College in Illinois. This conference takes place every other year for single CMA Hmong adults who want to learn more about God's will and meet new and old friends. the conference has a schedule that kind of goes like this:
               
                 7:30 am      Breakfast
                 9:00 am      Morning Service
                 10:30 am    Workshop One
                 11:30 am    Lunch
                 1:00 pm      Workshop Two
                 2:30 pm      Small Group
                 3:30 pm      Free time
                 5:00 pm      Dinner
                 7:00 pm      Evening Service
                 9:00 pm      Free time
                 1:00 am      Lights out     


The conference is filled with different speakers from all over the US that speak about different topics at each workshop. The morning and evening service were led by some CMA pastors that taught from the book of Romans. The overall theme of the conference was based off of Romans 12:1-2.

                                    “Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s
                                    mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices,
                                    holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of
                                    worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of
                                    this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your
                                    mind, Then you will be able to test and approve what
                                    God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

I really liked the theme this year because it was just a good reminder for me that this life is not mine own and that I need to use myself for God’s will. It also reminded me of the struggle of growing up and wanting to be part of the world and to fit in with everyone, when God in fact called us to be a part of the world. The only way to be a part of the world and to renew your mind is truly from understanding and learning God’s will. I do feel very bless to have gone to SALT because I was able to take in so much and actually renew my thinking and my understanding on certain areas in my life. Some of the workshops I attend were Homosexuality, Spiritual Warfare, Women in Ministry, True Beauty, Christian Women in a Feministic World, and Sanctity over Vanity. Although most were pretty good, my favorites had to be Homosexuality and Women in Ministry. I just wanted to share a few things I learned in those two workshops.


Homosexuality: Creation over the Creator 

This workshop was taught my Xf. McYoung Yang from Maplewood, Minnesota. I never seen him preach before, but I must say I really like how he teaches. Overall, his workshop was really organized with a PowerPoint and matching handouts. Everything was smoothly put together and he used many biblical references. I really did enjoy that they added this workshop because it is something so viral in our society today and needs to be address. One of the main verses he address was Romans: 1:21-28
                                    
                                    "For this reason God gave then up to dishonorable
                                     passions. For their women exchanged natural relations

                                     for those that are contrary to nature; and the men 
                                     likewise gave up natural relations with women and were
                                     consumed with passion for one another, men committing
                                     shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the
                                     due penalty for their error. "
  
Women in Ministry

This workshop was led by Naam Xf. Teng or also known as Kangza Xiong from Minnesota. I’m pretty familiar with her teaching because she and her husband used to serve at my church for a couple of years, but it’s probably been almost five years that I haven’t seen her teach. This workshop was by far my favorite because of the organization of her PowerPoint and all the biblical context she used to reveal the real will of God for women. One verse she used was Titus 2: 3-5
                                     
                                     "Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in
                                     the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to
                                     much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can
                                     train the younger women to love their husbands and
                                     children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at
                                     home to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands,
                                     so that no one will malign the word of God."




Other part of SALT were the small groups. The picture above is my small group with our balloon animals that my talented small group leader made for us all. Small groups are a group of about ten or more people from different states and churches. The point of having small groups is to connect and meet new people so we can grow with one another spiritually and socially. I always look forward to small groups because what’s better than to meet other brothers and sisters in Christ. During small groups, the group leader leads everyone into a short lesson reviewing some points of the services. The sad part of small groups is that we only meet like three times, so it was harder to connect with one another, but that’s why I love Facebook. We were all able to friend each other and stay in touch.

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 I don’t want to write too much, so on to my outfits that I wore throughout the week at SALT. I only photographed my causal day outfits, instead of all my sport and formal evening service outfits. So, I have five outfits all together and will try to post where I bought each garment.  



OUTFIT ONE: DAISY DREAMING
This was the most causal of my outfits because I knew that when we got there we would be doing a lot of moving around and trying to unload into our rooms. So, this outfit I wanted to stay mobile and comfortable. I got this shirt at Sheinisde and thought is was really cute and I usually don't buy bright color printed t-shirts, but I made this one an exception. My shorts were actually a pair of old pants I had that I just cut at the knee. Then, I ended the look with my adored white low-top converse. 
To purchase click ---> 1. Daisy T-shirt   2. White Converse



OUTFIT TWO: BOYISH CHARMS
I really love this outfit because it's super comfortable, but looks really stylish. I've been really liking the whole boyish look, but still looking really feminine with my hair and make-up done. Although, you can't see the print on the t-shirt, it reads Balmain Paris, who is my favorite fashion designer. If you don't know him, please look him up because you are missing out!!! My favorite collection was his Fall RTW 2012. Check it out here ---> Balmain 2012 I originally bought this shirt on Sheinside,com, but they currently don't have it anymore. I featured this vest on my wedding guest outfit blog also, but I brought it awhile back. I'lll try to find a link of a similar vest. My shorts are orginally from Gap, but I bought them from Goodwill. They were boyfriend style pants that were really cute, but I decided to make them into shorts and distress them like crazy. My shoes are the Nike SB Zoom Stefan Janoski ESP Skate Shoes and they are super comfortable. 
To purchase click ---> 1. Black Vest 2.Nike



OUTFIT THREE: BTS ARMY
This outfit is for all you kpop fans. At the same time the conference was happening, BTS (kpop boy group) was having their concert in Chicago. I was pretty sad that I didn't get to see them because I waited like a year for them to come to Chicago. But it's all good, I still represented them at the conference with this awesome shirt I bought yet again on Sheinside.com. BTS fighting, we shall meet one day. (kekeke) I paired the outfit with my self-designed faux leather jogging shorts and I tied a chambray shirt around my waist. I'm wearing the same Nike's in the previous outfit.
To purchase click ---> 1.ARMY tee 2. Leather Shorts 3. Chambray  4. Nike 



OUTFIT FOUR: STYLISH NERD
This outfit was actually inspired by a video I watched on YouTube. I bought the "dress" from the men's shirts at Goodwill and just chopped the sleeves off. I really like up-cycling clothing, if you couldn't tell. The dress kind of reminds me of a men's night gown. I paired the top with faux leather leggings, silver glasses necklace and my lace-up platform booties. I'll try to find links of items that resemble pieces of my outfit for you guys, because I get most of my clothing from Goodwill.
To purchase click ---> 1.Striped Button-up Dress 2.Leggings 3.Booties 4.Glasses Necklace



OUTFIT FIVE: LINEAR LINES
 This outfit was definitely the most daring because of my socks and shoes. I always feel out of place every time I wear my creepers because people around me don't really see them too often, but I learn to not care too much about what other people think about my clothes. Fashion is a risk I'm willing to take to express myself. I really like this shirt because it just looks cool and it says Alexander Wang, one of my other fashion designers I look up to. I've been totally loving these types of style skirts, so when I saw this at Goodwill, I had to get it, plus I love the heavy quality material and color. I paired the look off with my fun grid transparent socks, creepers, and silver chain necklace.
To purchase click ---> 1. T-shirt 2. Transparent Socks 3. Creeper Shoes 4. Necklace  


If you made it this far, thanks so much. I tend to write a lot, but I hope you guys enjoyed reading my experience at SALT and my looks. Comment down below which outfit was your favorite or if you went to SALT, how was your experience? Tell me, I want to know :) Have a good day and God bless!

Here's a quick picture that I edited with my youth girls and I before we left to explore the city. 








Tuesday, August 25, 2015

5 Wedding Geust Outfits for Summer

July 28, 2015 2:06AM


I love weddings because it’s one of the sweetest gift to witness a man and woman coming together as one in Christ. My summers are always filled with beautiful weddings, so I thought why not do a wedding guest lookbook for you guys! I decided to do five different looks for summer weddings. I will also include some tips and do's and don’ts. So let's get stated!!!



OUTFIT ONE: LITTLE BLACK DRESS

Outfit number one is the classic little black dress. If all else fails, a little black dress will be perfect for any wedding. I love wearing black because it is flattering on everyone and always looks sophisticated. I actually bought this dress at Goodwill, but it originally was from Jessica Simpson’s clothing line. The reason I bought this dress was because I loved the strong shoulder look with the shoulder pads and embellishments, but the quality of the fabric is also really nice. I also like how mature the dress makes me look with the wrapped top and tulip wrapped bottom. I finished off the look with a plain black clutch from Goodwill and black suede wedges from Kohl's. Do wear black because it’s always safe and don't ever wear all white. Repeat don't wear an all white outfit!!! You don't want to take the attention away from the bride and have everyone glare at you right.   



OUTFIT TWO: BOYISH BALLERINA 

Outfit number two mixes masculine and feminine pieces, but still looks put together. The pink tulle with the tailored vest makes a perfect mix of masculinity and femininity. All the items (except the shoes) I bought from Goodwill, but the vest and dress are both originally from Target. As you might be able to tell, I'm a huge thrifter and love shopping at Goodwill. I remember seeing the black vest at Target on sale for $13 and really wanted to get it, but decided not to. Then a week or so later, I go to Goodwill and find it not only in black, but also in white for $5 each, which is such a steal. I usually get a lot of compliments when I wear my vest because even though it looks boxy and business like, it has deep armholes that make it a lot more casual. Also for this outfit, if you wanted to ditch the wedges for a pair of flat black lace-up oxfords would be very cute. Do mix and match masculine and feminine pieces.



OUTFIT THREE: ON EDGE 

Outfit three mixes girly with edgy. Maxi skirts are great pieces to dress up and this one I actually made from a dress I bought from Goodwill. I loved the color and material of the dress, but unfortunately it was like six sizes too big, so I decided to chop off the top and make an elastic waistband skirt. Maxi skirts are also great if you wanted to have the illusion of lengthen legs. My leather jacket I bought on an Asian wholesale website. Depending on where you live, a leather jacket might be too hot for a summer wedding, but it will look really chic just hanging on your shoulders like how I wore it. I finished the outfit with a plain white tank, skinny black waist belt, a black clutch, and black heels. Although, I like a lot of different fashion styles my favorite style has to be the edgy look. I love the black leather jacket and maxi skirt combo for any formal event. 



OUTFIT FOUR: MODERN GREEK

Outfit four I call “Modern Greek” because of the classic Greek doric maxi dress silhouette. This look is definitely the most effortless, but also the most elegant. Maxi dresses are the easiest to style because all you need are a pair of heels and a statement necklace. I love maxi dresses not only because they are effortless, but also slim and elongate te figure. I bought this maxi dress from none other than Goodwill and my necklace was a diy. If you are running late and need to find something easy to wear a maxi dress is probably the best choice. 


OUTFIT FIVE: ABSTRACT BORDERS

The last outfit is a little more daring because of the mix and match patterns, but I love the two prints together and the simple silhouette with the modern front center zipper. I bought this dress from Goodwill for $7 and I couldn’t resist buying it because I have nothing like it in my wardrobe. When I got home I did some researching and the retail price of this dress was over $100! This is probably one of the best finds I got from Goodwill. Because the print is so bold I pair the look with a plain black clutch and simple black heels. I could also see this outfit paired with cobalt blue heels and accessories. Don’t be afraid to mix and match prints and colors because you never know if things look good together until you experiment.    

Here below are some tips to know before the wedding and some added do's and don'ts.

Tips:

1. Know the dress code

a.       Formal
b.      Semi-formal
c.       Causal
      2.Ask for the wedding colors, so you don’t match the wedding party
      3.Know the location
a.       Indoor or outdoor
      4.Wear comfortable shoes or bring an extra pair of flats

Do’s:


      1.If all else fails, wear a little black dress
      2.Mix and match masculine and feminine pieces
      3.Throw on a leather jacket over your shoulders
      4.Mix and match formal and causal pieces
      5.Wear anything maxi
      6.Mix and match prints and colors

Don’ts:


      1.Don’t wear all white
      2.Don’t out do the bride or wedding party
      4.Don’t dress inappropriate (sweatpants, mini skirts, revealing too much skin, etc...)  


      I hope you all enjoy my looks and tips. If you guys have any other events that you want me to make looks for comment them below and tell me which look was your favorite. Thanks and God bless. 





Thursday, August 20, 2015

Truth, Modesty, and Beauty

July 28, 2015 4:06PM


As I start this blog, I want to make it known that it is not for my own fame, but for God's glory. I wanted to start a blog about my love for fashion, but also my first love, which is God. I want to use my talent and my time to help lead others closer to God or to get them to know God. This blog will definitely be a challenge for me, but I have been feeling very convicted to start this because it has been on my mind for a very long time now. I hope that whoever falls upon my blog will be filled with the joy from God and if not I'm totally fine because it's only through the Holy Spirit that people will be convicted.

I want my main focus to be about not only fashion, but spreading God's truth, modesty, and the true beauty of a women. I have some special bible verses that will be basing my blog off on. I truly hope and pray that those who have run dry or those who are lost because of the chaos in this world will be able to see truth and find meaning of who they really are in God's eyes.   

As I start this journey, I hope you guys will follow me as I follow Jesus.

My first and very special bible verse comes from the book of Matthew as Jesus speaks to his disciples. 

                    "Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in 
                   the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy 
                   Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have 
                   commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to 
                   the very end of the age."

Matthew 28:19-20

I have grown up in the church that is part of the CMA denomination. The CMA (Christian Missionary Alliance) main goal is exacting what this verse is stating. Jesus makes it so easy and clear, as he commands us to go out into the world and preach about his good news. So, as I start this blog, may I be able to spread God's good new to everyone who reads this.

The next two bible verses reflect on being modest and being mindful of how we present ourselves to others because we are God's children after all.

                   "Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, 
                   who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not 
                   your own; you were bought with a price. Therefore honor God 
                   with your body."

1 Corinthians  6:19-20

This verse speaks so much truth into my life because it reminds me that this life does not belong to me, but to the one who created me. Everything I have is truly just a blessing that the Lord has given to me to use for his glory. Because I am his, I need to be careful of how I dress myself, so that I may honor him as a child of God. To honor God with our bodies, I believe is to dress modestly and I don't mean having to cover up from head to toe, but just be aware that we don't want our brothers to fall into sin. In this world, we see in the media and in our society that dressing in clothes that show off our figure and having guys check us out is something that makes us feel beautiful and accepted. The thing is God already accepts us and that in itself should be good enough to make us feel beautiful without having to sell our bodies. This then brings me to the next verse:


                    "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as
                    braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead,
                    it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle
                    and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight."

1 Peter 3:3-4

This last verse focuses on the outward beauty most people generally recognize first because we humans are visual creatures, but this verse speaks about beauty that comes from within. We shouldn’t spend so much time trying to beautify our appearance, but to beautify our spirit or soul. This might be a hard thing for many of us to follow because we do so much for vanity. I for sure struggle with this too. We have to remember if we are doing more for our vanity or for our sanctity.  

These were the few bible verses that really touch my heart and I hope they touch yours as well. I want to be able to be super intentional and honest about my faith and my actions. I think it is such a blessing to be able to start this adventure with all of you and I hope you all made it this far down!!! Thank you everyone for reading and hopefully maybe come back soon to see my future post. If you guys have any questions or just need a listening ear comment down below or email me at bethery.yang@gmail.com. Have a good day and God bless.  
      
  

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Metamorphosis

July 8, 2015 10:09AM

Hey Everyone,

Here's another quick look, i modeled for a friend.
This was an outfit part of one of our student fashion show
early this May. My friend Goldhlis Thao created this outfit.
She titled this look "Metamorphosis"
Showing the transition from spring to summer.
She machine knit the beautiful pea green cable asymmetrical
 sweater and designed the chiffon blue floral circle skirt.
I paired the look with some cobalt blue wedges
that I purchased at Target a few years back. 
Hope you guys enjoyed this look and check it out on lookbook.nu
and also check my photography page on facebook
at Less Than Three Photography










Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Minimalistic Look

July 7, 2015 4:05PM

Sorry for the delay of post.
I'm just getting into the habit of
photographing my outfits and thinking
of a blog concept, so things will be 
kind of slow to start. Please, follow, hype,
or like my ootd on my personal lookbook.nu account



Thursday, July 2, 2015

New Adventures

July 2, 2015 3:44PM

Hey World,

bethery.yang here with a new blog!!!
Excited to start this new adventure
So stay tune for post related to Fashion.